Here's an example:
I'm finally ready to won my own power, to say "This is who I am." If you like it, you like it. And if you don't, you don't. So watch out, I'm gonna fly. (Oprah Winfrey)
We must learn the power of living with our helplessness. (Sheldon B. Kopp)Live with these quotes for a bit, and you'll see that they are not 'either-or', but' both-and' in terms of addressing the truth of personal power. Wonderful!